If I could describe 2020 in three words, I would use the words – uncomfortable, growth, and gratitude.
Uncomfortable
The uncertainty of the pandemic, loss of family friends, racial injustice, managing my mental health, changing jobs, not visiting family, just to say a few.
All these experiences have tested me to the core, however, I can now say that I’m thankful for what I’ve learnt through the situations.
The uncomfortable events have encouraged me to exercise love and kindness to myself and others. Also, I learnt that although I can’t control what happens, I have power to chose how to react.
Growth
When I realised that I could control how I react to situations, I started to look into how I can take on challenges in a way that makes me more resilient.
One of the ways was by viewing my “obstacles” as “opportunities” for growth, always finding out what I can learn from the uncomfortable feelings or experiences.
Growth has definitely been a priority this year. I’ve prioritised it by reading more, setting goals in therapy, having thought-provoking conversations that lead me to action, and trying out new things (even changing careers).
Gratitude
Finally, I can testify that Paul was right when he said, “Give thanks in all circumstances; for this is God’s will for you in Christ Jesus” (1 Thessalonians 5:18).
When I remember where God led me from, and how my life has changed dramatically over the past 5 years, I have nothing but praise and gratitude to God.
It’s easy to take for granted the blessings you have in your life today but it’s good to be intentional about reminding yourself so that you can cease from seeing yourself as unlucky but see yourself as a blessed and highly favoured child of the King.
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